And More from MoR

4 Mar

You know – at least i hope youall know – that despite all my bandying around the terms “Master” and “slave,”  MoR and i haven’t made any commitments to each other.  So for all His “MY property” talk, i’m not.  i just want to put that out there  – this relationship may well crash and burn or fizzle out.

We are trying it on though.  Playing with it.  He writes, and says i may share this here:

Master of the Revels defined.  It was a position at the courts of medieval noblemen and kings.  Its function was to organize events, parties.  They arranged the talent, the entertainment and then made sure the event unfolded as planned. 

Or perhaps “Puppet Master”.  Puller of strings, maker of things to happen.  We like to see happiness around us  and to know we are creators of it. 

For example, aisha likes tools used on her – if they are properly used.  She loves that.  As Master, I must sometimes push my “self” down so that her “self” can rise, be uplifted and joyful. 

I do not like tools for they place things between me and her – they make her more remote from me, and she reacts to the tools not to me or my touch.  I want her reacting to MY  touch.  But ok, she loves tools.  So I push my “self” down and use the tools on her. 

Floggers (not sure why they call them that, they should really call them “massagers” – their stroke massages and they can feel wonderful, light to the touch, heavy to the touch, thud, or tingle by dragging them softly over skin, ever so lightly), crops, canes, paddles (I have a clear one of Lucite – I can see her skin, beautiful creamy butt compress under that, I like that one), straps (she likes straps, I like the sound but since there is no touch, not so much), quirts (a nice one I modified from 4 hard leather strands to 30 or 40 soft leather strands – nice).  I almost resent having to use them for they distance me from her. 

So I meet MY needs by putting my left hand on her shoulder as I use the right to wield the tools for her.  Through the left hand I can feel her body’s response to what I am doing with my right – changes in musculature, flexing of muscle, flesh and sinew under my hand as she absorbs what I do with my right. 

She sighs under the touch of the tools, grunts, makes happy chocolate-eating sounds (Mmmmmmmmmm) so I know what I do is delicious for her. 

Every now and then I sneak that off left hand under the stroke of what I am doing to gauge hardness of stroke – moderating it or intensifying it for her so that she can experience as much as she can – taking her to the edge to her maximum of pleasure, and sometimes to the edge of pain.  I check the effect, sliding fingers into her – no resistance – she lubricates EXTREMELY well – she likes what I am doing.

BDSM at its best is a thing, an experience of great beauty.  Two acting out together our little secret of how to make each other happy – meeting each others needs.  I orchestrating (doing what I do best and like most – making things happen, stopping that inertia of everyday life to make things happen) events for her to enjoy (clearly what SHE does best – enjoy). 

I see in BDSM one of my tasks is to create a world for her in which she can see in herself the beauty I see unfolding as I create beauty through and in her.  Positioning her, her body, subtle differences of light and tone, darkness and light, shadow, shapes, hues of color to delight the eye, the hand, touch and sensations for both of us.  My touch of her, her absorbing the sights, sounds, sensations. 

Please don’t tell them – the REST of the world – no one will ever work again – they will do just THIS – create happiness, beauty one for the other, thrills, goosebumps on the others skin.

Sometimes I do bondage with cloth of beautiful colors, blues, shades of orange, black and I enjoy her curves wrapped tightly in beautiful colors.  I am here, I can see all this, take it in, beauty for the eyes, the heart to behold, touch, caress, stroke and enjoy but she? 

She is there – IN it, not really removed enough to be able to SEE the beauty I see. 

She can FEEL it – sometimes I stop and point herself out to her so she can see it (perspective might be different, appreciate her for her curves from a different perspective, not only from distance and angle but from her mind with whatever goods and bads she associates with her body bound up in what she sees – I not encumbered by that, just able to enjoy the beauty I see unfolding before me, letting Madison Avenue and their pejorative connotations go to hell – that’s fat, that’s not fat, that’s pretty, that’s not pretty –

I can let all that go and just enjoy the beauty I see). 

I try to allow her to see her beauty as well, to SHOW it to her, make HER see it as well – hopefully to allow HER to share in MY joy of the scene unfolding before me.


          but her eyes take on the 1,000 yard stare, roll back a bit, going into subspace, her feelings going an entirely different direction of their own – not the direction mine have taken but a good direction in their own right. 

I put my mouth next to her ear, breathing in it, letting the air of my breath softly touch her, I allow her to react to that, then I kiss her ear, then gently bite her earlobe…

letting her experience more as she gets ever wetter to the sounds of my laughter, gently, softly in her ear and I kiss it once again, my hand in her hair pulling just the right amount.

So – i read His words and am seduced. 

i think Sfp is right, MoR needs his own blog too.  And i’m not trying to cop out on my own blogging – i may even be back later today.   i don’t want to be like those people who get all smitten with someone and quote them all the time til you think you’re gonna scream. 

But i wanted to share more of  His perspective. 

{Once again, paragraph breaks are mine.}


16 Responses to “And More from MoR”

  1. sweet kk March 4, 2011 at 5:22 am #

    Oh my!! I’m with sfp!! How lovely those words!!


    • Master of the Revels March 4, 2011 at 5:53 pm #

      Doffs his hat, bows low….thanks Milady…..

  2. thesubmissivebf March 4, 2011 at 6:21 am #

    yes definately his own blog.

    • Master of the Revels March 4, 2011 at 5:55 pm #

      No, no, I don’t think so….after all, I have a house to kill….and I do not wish to make aisha less…..somehow I feel to do that, start my own, would put me in competition with her…and I don’t want to do that….so I think I will leave this to her….she does it wonderfully…

      • aisha March 4, 2011 at 7:54 pm #

        Ok, I need to chime in here – just for the record – MoR, you could have as many blogs as you like and it wouldn’t be a problem, or “make me less.” Thanks for the kind words about my blogging though. You’re welcome to guest post any time you like…

  3. xantu March 4, 2011 at 9:47 am #

    I have an ongoing fantasy of a Dom that writes…

    • Master of the Revels March 4, 2011 at 5:56 pm #

      Another reason not to blog….I write on a book all day long….I used to spend much more time on the internet – lately….not so much.

  4. littlemonkey March 4, 2011 at 11:42 am #

    Quite the sensualist. And any Dom that understands the significance, and refers to it as, “happy chocolate eating sounds”, needs his own blog, imho.

    • Master of the Revels March 4, 2011 at 7:22 pm #

      thanks…i think…. littlemonkey…..i do not think we can figure out whether or not I’m worthwhile based on a single turn of phrase…laughing…and I checked with aisha…she likes chocolate….and people who like chocolate seem to be pretty intense with their likes….so yes…i would say definitely…that was a happy sound….

  5. nilla March 4, 2011 at 1:12 pm #

    if the time should come to be that MoR becomes MoaR…first, honestly? i’ll fall over laughing coz i for one, will *want* to hear “moar” from the both of Y/you…

    and i am ever a fan of puns and double entendres…

    One thing that i note is how very much like my own Master you are, Mor. He much prefers His hands and body on mine, rather than toys etc.

    As a matter of fact, i plan on showing him this post, coz it so resonated for me.

    There is a lovely tone to Y/your interplay that i find soothing…and quite stimulating. What a pair Y/you two make!!

    Good luck on the house hunting, i think someone as determined as You, Sir, will find something to suit all Your specific requirements, and soon.

    i very much am enjoying hearing these tales from the “other” Side…


    • Master of the Revels March 4, 2011 at 7:27 pm #

      Hi nilla, I liked your response very much…you are thoughtful about all this too…and your Master sounds like a man after my own heart…There is just something very special about touch….In fact, I am a certified (laughing…have been certifiable for years) Quantum Touch Healer…..I think people can live in the vanilla world for years without ever being touched…and that is a GREAT thing about BDSM….not touching=not gonna happen….That was one of the things I so value/valued about being with aisha….there was no such answer as “no” when I wanted to touch….Touch is a gift we give to each other and in the giving of it we both give and receive….Well done nilla…well done…And to aisha…Good Girl!!!

      • aisha March 4, 2011 at 8:28 pm #

        Thank you, MoR. i take my “Good girl’s” anywhere i can get them, right?



  6. Mick March 4, 2011 at 4:32 pm #

    wow… very well put MoR….you make it very easy to imagine, particularly for someone who had actually met Aisha.

    and I find it ironic that SFP is now trying to get you to do your own blog, after Aisha suggested earlier this week that Donna, our Senior Correspondent start her own blog….


    • Master of the Revels March 4, 2011 at 7:30 pm #

      Thank you Mick…laughing…I thought YOU were the senior partner…. I appreciate your comment…Something else occurred to me to describe aisha….She is a Kentucky Derby Quality race horse trying to pass herself off as a Shetland pony…..Very compact…and SOOOO MUCH heart….very impressive….

      • aisha March 4, 2011 at 7:57 pm #

        Again, here i am, just for the record – I am NOT trying to “pass myself off as a Shetland pony” …laughing… but then the rest of what you say, MoR, is so sweet, i find i can’t argue. Nice strategy…



  7. strivingforpeace March 5, 2011 at 7:25 am #

    wow — I make one stray comment and suddenly I’m the one trying for force MoR to have his own blog

    it would be nice
    I would read it

    but Aisha would still be the first read of the day


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