Showered and Shaved

2 Apr

…and wearing cute, matching lingerie, i headed out to the fish fry.  Which was fun, and the fish was good, and i enjoyed spending some time with vanilla friends. 

im using the term vanilla fairly loosely, cause i wouldn’t necessarily put money on it that everyone at the table was.  But if there was kink there, it was lightly covered in appropriate public behavior.


By then – i was pretty much committed to the munch because of G. 

i met G on CM originally, and he joined FL, so we’ve been in touch, and he seemed really nice.  He travels for his job and just happens to be in town this weekend for a convention.  We’d talked about going and agreed that he’d let me know by 6 if he was in or out.

About 5, i get an e-mail saying he’s in.  So i am too, cause it would be mean to back out then, right?

Since i’ve never met him in person, we meet in another public place first.  i know you probably can’t always tell if someone’s a psycho killer, but i think you can get some feel for it.  And i want to make sure i feel comfortable with him before i take him to the munch. 

He’s from Wisconsin, so he has that distinctive accent – or is it eccent?  He’s also easy-going and evidently harmless.

So we end up riding together – i drive – which is probably a good thing, since my iphone GPS misdirects me – don’t laugh, it does – or maybe i misunderstand it – whatever.  But u-turns are the order of the day at first, and there’ss an alley or two involved.   Actually, he could have been worried that i was abducting him.  But i didn’t, and he doesn’t turn out to be psycho-serial-killer either, so we get to the munch safely.

G is talkative, which is good, and keeps me too distracted to even think about being nervous.  So i’m really not – or only a tiny bit – when we pull up. 

And then we’re in, and sign in and pay, and at last – walk into the room full of people eating pizza and talking.  


Yes, where the chairs are lined up against the wall, only they set up tables and the lights are normal and there’s lots of people; it’s almost like a vanilla gathering.  Until you see the girl selling raffle tickets is in a little outfit that literally shows her butt, and someone is patting her on it.


Mr. Michael sees us, and comes over to greet us, and hugs me.

Now, i know that Mr. Michael hugs just about everyone who comes to the munch, at least it seems like it.  And i’m sure he tells them all he’s glad to see them too.  But he has such a nice way of doing it, that i feel really welcome, so that’s nice.

And i’m out of time this morning…  i’ll have to finish later today.   But i wanted you to know that i went!  i’ll be back with the rest of the story.


13 Responses to “Showered and Shaved”

  1. Donna April 2, 2011 at 7:37 am #

    Good for you! Can’t win if you don’t play.


    • sin April 2, 2011 at 7:54 am #

      I’m with Donna. And I do think it funny going from the Lent fish fry to the munch. Naughty girl.

      • aisha April 2, 2011 at 5:27 pm #

        @Sin – ooooooh, I love the “naughty girl” idea. {laughing} Yeah, the combination might be a little extra kink.


    • aisha April 2, 2011 at 5:16 pm #

      Yep, just like the lottery, right? “Someone’s gonna win – might as well be me!”



  2. ahiddenslave April 2, 2011 at 9:05 am #

    Sounds much more inviting that another munch (morning star, I think)blogged about recently. Hope it was good.HSxx

    • aisha April 2, 2011 at 5:18 pm #

      O, I’ll have to go find her blog and see what it was like. The community here really is wonderful – lots of neat things going on.


  3. Mick April 2, 2011 at 9:08 am #

    It is a great combination.


    • aisha April 2, 2011 at 5:19 pm #

      Showered and shaved? laughing… yes, i like it too.


  4. angel April 2, 2011 at 11:14 am #

    Good for you! i’m so pleased you decided to go.

    i was a little bit surprised about something you said. i can sit in any room full of strangers and tell who atleast has got it in them to be a Sadist.
    i mean, i know who is Dominant and/or Sadistic. i can’t say who has acted on it, however…only that it exists in them. Catholicism, with all of its guilt and sado-masochistic overtores tend to make a lot of us so i’m sure you were not the only one .
    i sort of assumed we all could “smell each other out”. i guess i was wrong.


    • aisha April 2, 2011 at 5:25 pm #

      @Angel – You may be better at that than i am – i may have suspicions, but haven’t had a lot of opportunity to check whether or not I’m right! And my so called “gay-dar” is not always great either…. As for the rest – about Catholicism – yep. No doubt.



  5. littlemonkey April 2, 2011 at 1:34 pm #

    I’m glad you went, and your tone seems to indicate it wasn’t a terrible time. Expanding your horizons is a good thing usually.

    I would like to say something that the others have not though…you’re a tease. ;D

    • aisha April 2, 2011 at 5:26 pm #

      @Lm – A tease???? Me???? {laughing} Surely not…



  6. vanillamom April 4, 2011 at 9:13 am #

    Late to the party, and you know why…but such a delightful start!

    headingoff to read part two…


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