Another Lovely Evening…

27 Dec

Last night, Sir and i went out for dinner with His son, A, and A’s girlfriend.  They are a delightful young couple, and we had a lovely time.  

We actually ran into Ms. Constance and Drew at the restaurant we went to, which is a favorite one of hers.  That was nice, just to see them and say hi.

We came home and talked and made out on the couch for a while.  Yes, made out like teenagers, which included all kinds of things, as you can imagine.  

So it’s been a fairly vanilla week or two, and i’m not complaining.  {Let me be real clear ~ i’m not complaining.}

We have been building the more vanilla aspects of our relationship, and yes, that’s a very good thing, because it’s not going to work for me in the long run if we don’t have that too.  

He’s so cool, y’all.  He’s really smart.  And funny.  He has great stories to tell, things he’s done, experiences he’s had.

He’s compassionate and caring.  Not just of me, but with people in general, and people He’s taken under his wing in particular.

He’s realistic, He’s not trying to take care of folks who don’t need or want Him to, or trying to change people and tell them what to do.   He sees things as they are, not as He wants them to be or as they should be.

He’s had some really, really difficult things to deal with.  Some tragic, some incredibly sad, and a whole lot of just tough circumstances.  He’s not bitter, not disillusioned and jaded, as he easily could be.   


i’m in love, you know.  When i’m with Him, when i look at Him, i just feel waves of love for Him.

He is the dearest, sweetest man who ever lived.

No, He really is.

i love Him.

Tomorrow night, He’s going to “spank my ass.”  Leading us out of the vanilla realm, back into kink.  i am ok with Him leading.

i’m not in a hurry.

He doesn’t have to exercise all His dominance all the time.  There’s time to develop how we want things to be.

 i don’t know yet how i really am.  i ran across this quote:

“You feel your strength in the experience of pain.” 
― Jim Morrison

and i think that i want that ~  more pain, more submissiveness.  

But there’s no hurry.

i know, i can tell Him what i want.  

i don’t know what i want.

It’s a journey.  i don’t know which path will take us where we want to go.

So i’ll sit back and go slowly.  Let Him lead this dance.  Trust Him to find the way.

18 Responses to “Another Lovely Evening…”

  1. Striving for Peace December 27, 2011 at 7:12 am #

    You do

    we can tell you do

    because you’re making us love him too


    I’m very happy for you

    I’m happy for him too — because it sounds like you both
    needed this


    ps — now aren’t you glad you got back out there?

    • sin December 27, 2011 at 7:45 am #

      I think this says just what I wanted to say. I like him.

      • aisha December 28, 2011 at 3:50 am #

        Thanks Sin ~ i’m glad you do!! aisha

    • aisha December 28, 2011 at 3:47 am #

      Dear Sfp,

      Laughing… yessss, i’m glad i got back out there!

      And i’m glad i’m making you all love him too. He’s very lovable.



  2. Keith December 27, 2011 at 7:50 am #

    Glad things are gowning well for you. All the best in 2012. Hope you have good kink session tomorow night. You can’t beat a good ass tanning

    • aisha December 28, 2011 at 3:49 am #


      Thanks for reading, and for taking the time to comment!

      i can only agree with you on the “good ass tanning…” Can’t be beat.



  3. Faithful December 27, 2011 at 8:40 am #



    • aisha December 28, 2011 at 3:49 am #

      Thanks, Faithful!


  4. thesubmissivebf December 27, 2011 at 9:02 am #

    SPF says it all lol!
    happy for you 🙂

    • aisha December 28, 2011 at 3:51 am #

      Thanks, Butterfly! She did put it nicely, didn’t she? aisha

  5. Faerie December 27, 2011 at 11:38 am #

    You sound so happy and so content, he must be very special. All that and kinky too, what more could a girl ask for?

    • aisha December 28, 2011 at 3:54 am #

      Thanks, Faerie,

      Sigh… He really is “all that.” i’m in that phase of relationship where i just want to talk about Him, you know? i sure appreciate y’all indulging me.


  6. vanillamom December 27, 2011 at 6:17 pm #

    ah,so lovely….and you’re contributing to the relationship too. He listens, you can see it in his actions and responses.

    He is a lovely man, and i am so so so happy for you, for him..

    Hugs and much love,


    • aisha December 28, 2011 at 4:00 am #


      Yes, of course i contribute too. i don’t mean to make it sound like i’m totally passive or anything, that would be hard to imagine, wouldn’t it? lol.

      And you know better than anyone that He is a lovely man! i love that you met Him. i might have to call you and go all girly “Isn’t He cute???? Do you know what He said????” “He’s sooooo funny…” “Guess what He did????”




  7. Sky December 27, 2011 at 6:49 pm #

    As much as he is blessing your life Ausha, you are a blessing to his, I’m sure.

    You sound bluff sulky happy! I’m so happy for you 🙂

    Take care.


    • aisha December 28, 2011 at 4:02 am #


      Thank you, that’s very sweet. And i think you’re probably right.

      And i have to admit, i couldn’t figure out what “bluff sulky happy” was supposed to be before auto-correct got to it. “Both very?” It doesn’t matter. i’m glad you’re happy for me!!!

      many hugs,


      • Sky December 28, 2011 at 6:07 pm #

        Sorry Aisha. Yes it was auto corrected. And I misspelt your name using my iPhone. Sorry 😦

      • aisha December 28, 2011 at 6:08 pm #

        Laughing… i knew that – but this time i wasn’t sure what you meant. No worries, it happens to all of us!!

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