Winter Wickedness

6 Feb

Writing fast this morning – overslept a little, not surprising if you knew how little sleep i got over the weekend.  Wish i’d been able to take off work today, but it didn’t work out.  Anyhow.

Classes.  We went to classes first.  Miraculously, none of the classes i really wanted to go to were held during my volunteer time, which made me very happy.

So first we went to Mistress Jenn on impact play.  She demonstrated how to use hands and other body parts effectively.  It’s a type of play that i’ve never done ~ other than spanking, of course.

She spent some time on spanking, and ways to do it to get the best effect ~ which is both painful and erotic for the bottom  ~ um for the bottom’s bottom.  

But than she demonstrated how to kick in ways that are apparently erotic, and  did some wrestling kinds of moves.  That’s not my cup of tea ~ i’m too small, i think, and too old for sure, to be trying to fight any Doms.  But her sub, who was my size and maybe close to my age, appeared to enjoy it all.

i had seen a workshop on this kind of play once before, but it was more intense and seemed less designed for eroticism.   Mistress Jenn did demonstrate face slapping in a way that made it seem it could theoretically be not awful and traumatic, which is kind of cool.  

She had lots of interaction and demonstrations with people in the audience, and that’s always fun.

i did my volunteer shift next, and Sir brought us back lunch just as i was finishing.  It was nice eating together, talking about the class and people we’d seen, and just enjoying each other’s company.

Then we went to a class on Formal Training for submissives and slaves.   Sargent Major and slave riches taught that one, and it was a very old-school presentation.  

Sir and i both enjoyed it, although i don’t know that it has a lot of practical application for us.  He has no boots for me to black, and i don’t think He wants to teach me domestic skills.  i am already respectful ~ at least i think i am.

i can’t seem to remember to let Him open my car door, but that’s lack of habit, not lack of respect, or lack of desire to obey.

Anyhow, there was some good energy between Sargent Major and slave riches, and that was fun to experience.  It left a pleasant feeling between Sir and me, and reminded me that submission goes beyond play and beyond kink in some ways that we have not yet defined for us.

Then Sir went to meditate and i suppose do some yoga, and i went to a class on self-care ~ ways to enhance your own emotional well-being after the scene. That was good, and i’ll write more on it later.

Finally, Sir and i went to a class on rope.  The class focused on making rope a sensual and erotic experience rather than a practical exercise in knots.  Sir is already adept at this, but it was fun to watch.

Dinner at a Mexican restaurant, then closing remarks and the auction, which was fun.  Followed by time to primp for the play party.

i already posted pictures of what i wore around my neck and wrists…  Here are my very cute stockings

Except you can barely see the very cute bows on the back.  BUT my phone camera was not very cooperative, and it took us forever to even get a picture i could use.

i wore a simple, strapless black dress, in a silky material, with a bit of a flounce at the bottom of the skirt, but i took my black cape for when it got cold in the dungeon.  Sir was strikingly handsome in black dress pants and a dress shirt that was a deep purple with narrow white stripes.  

It was lovely just to be with Him, and i felt proud that He’s my Sir.

Got to go shower NOW.  Stay tuned for tales of the dungeon tomorrow…

10 Responses to “Winter Wickedness”

  1. Jz February 6, 2012 at 7:17 am #

    So, if they already present erotic kicking, think they’d buy erotic falling?
    I could probably teach that… (and then I’d have a reason to go!)

    It sounds like it was a lot of fun. 🙂

    • aisha February 6, 2012 at 9:01 pm #


      i dont’ know, but if you’re gonna teach erotic falling, i want to be there to watch and learn! 🙂

      It was fun…


  2. Sky Dancer February 6, 2012 at 7:48 am #

    Aisha – it sounds like you and Sir had a wonderful time at Winter Wickedness.

    I’m especially interested in hearing about the self-care class that you attended.

    Lovely stockings, btw!

    Hope you get some much needed rest/sleep tonight 🙂

    Fondly, Sky

    • aisha February 6, 2012 at 9:04 pm #


      We did have a wonderful time, it was amazing.

      i’ll do the self-care class tomorrow – it was interesting!

      And thanks ~ i’m glad you liked the stockings… 🙂

      Heading to bed real soon here…



  3. vanillamom February 6, 2012 at 7:53 am #

    sounds like a wicked good time (oooh, 70’s flashback!)…i’m so glad that you and your Sir had a delighful time together, that you had a blast taking in classes, and volunteering, and fun at the play party (one assumes)…

    and i love your stockings! Sweet and sexy…a great combo.

    Hugs and much love,


    • aisha February 6, 2012 at 9:12 pm #


      O, gosh, it really was fun. Yes. Glad you like the stockings. I

      t’s funny – at least it would have amused you i think – when i was planning what to wear from home, i was thinking i’d wear some kind of shirt over the little dress cause it seemed awfully bare and revealing. In actuality, at the event, i didn’t need anything over it and it was still demure. Funny.

      hugs and love back to you double,


  4. Striving for Peace February 6, 2012 at 8:19 am #

    I’m so glad you had a great time and you both found so much to share together.

    grinning for you


    • aisha February 6, 2012 at 9:12 pm #

      Thank you, Sfp!



  5. mouse February 6, 2012 at 11:43 am #

    Sounds like a great time! You sure are happy these days!


    • aisha February 6, 2012 at 9:13 pm #


      It was! And i am really happy these days… yeah.



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