Happiness Is…

4 Mar

… my Sir in the kitchen, working on His computer, and Sfp and ‘Nilla, chatting on IM with me.

It’s not quite my original fantasy, with me at Sir’s feet, but that’s perfectly ok.  It might be better, cause if i were at His feet, i wouldn’t be getting anything done, and that would be unfortunate.  AND i would have missed chatting with my dear subsisters… which is a whole different layer of pleasure.

Sir and i were going to the munch last night ~ running late because He had to work, but going ~ and actually got there ~ only to discover i had the wrong venue.  

That was sad.  😦

By the time we got to the wrong restaurant and discovered our mistake, it would have taken us another 20-20 minutes to get back to the right place, and we were already an hour late, so we stayed where we were.  And much as i hated to miss the event, it was really nice having time to talk.  

It had been a long week for both of us.  So it was excellent to re-connect with words, before we went home and reconnected with touch.

Happy, happy sigh….

And  now ~ if i glance slightly to my right, through the study door and the kitchen door, He is right there at the kitchen table.  

Life is good.

19 Responses to “Happiness Is…”

  1. jade March 4, 2012 at 10:15 am #

    Sounds like the universe had another plan than for you two to attend the munch and it was exactly what you both needed. 🙂

    i was thinking, when i read this, how if he was a different man, the entire evening could have been spoiled because you dared to be human and got the place wrong.
    Maybe i’m projecting. Well, okay, i’m projecting. In one of my relationships, yeah, it would have been a *very* big deal and the night would have been ruined.

    What i meant to say was what a pleasant thought it is, him in your kitchen and you enjoying your friends. 🙂

    • aisha March 4, 2012 at 10:41 am #

      Dear Jade,

      You are so right! All the way down the line you’re right. i think karma {and my own lack of attention to detail} put us in the wrong restaurant, and i think we ended up where we were meant to be.

      AND yes! i’ve been in relationships like that too, not in a long time, thank goodness, but absolutely.. and am so grateful that Sir’s not like that at all.

      And yessss, it’s way pleasant…. and nice to chat with you here!!!



  2. alice March 4, 2012 at 10:20 am #

    A “Sir at the kitchen table is worth

    {Alice’s comment cut-off here, she was trying to do it on here phone ~ and she asked me in another comment to take it down, but i’d like to finish it instead. Hope you don’t mind, Alice…}

    A “Sir at the kitchen table” is worth… two on Collarme?

    … His weight in gold?



    • alice March 4, 2012 at 10:25 am #

      Sorry aisha, I’m on a phone and made a mess of this comment – please delete for me. Alice. Btw. Sounds like you’re ina fantastic place this afternoon. X

      • aisha March 4, 2012 at 10:35 am #


        Smiling… i totally am, and i hope you don’t mind my creative license with your comment!


    • alice March 4, 2012 at 2:40 pm #

      Of course I don’t mind aisha. He’s your Sir and so you know exactly what He’s worth. Alice x

  3. thesubmissivebf March 4, 2012 at 10:55 am #

    Big Smiles…

    • aisha March 5, 2012 at 6:41 am #

      Thanks, Butterfly!


  4. mouse March 4, 2012 at 11:38 am #

    Sounds like a really happy accident. Your morning sounds great!!!


    • aisha March 5, 2012 at 6:42 am #


      It was great! Thanks…



  5. Striving for Peace March 4, 2012 at 4:19 pm #

    it was lovely to chat with you
    and to know that you were there
    in such a happy zone
    with your man

    I’m actually too happy for you to be jealous


    • aisha March 5, 2012 at 6:42 am #

      Dear Sfp,

      Just hugs,


  6. sin March 4, 2012 at 5:08 pm #

    It seems to me that you can see the glass as half full or as half empty and you have a knack for seeing it as half full. Good for you!

    • aisha March 5, 2012 at 6:47 am #

      Dear Sin,

      I laughed when i read this comment ~ are you saying that not everyone would be perfectly happy under those exact same circumstances??? And then i laughed about what a nice way you’d found to say it…

      i came up with a bunch of responses ~~ ah, yes, that’s me, all Zen all the time… and so on, but really i just want to say thanks for being you, and i wish i’d been IM’ing with you this morning too!


      • sin March 5, 2012 at 8:21 pm #

        I wish you had tooooo 🙂

  7. Sky March 4, 2012 at 6:51 pm #

    It sounds like you had such a lovely morning. And a nice evening catching up with your Sir. It’s so nice that you have a balance of vanilla and D/s. I’m so happy for you 🙂

    Fondly, Sky

    • aisha March 5, 2012 at 6:48 am #


      Thank you so much! i appreciate the support.



  8. vanillamom March 4, 2012 at 6:52 pm #

    what a lovely way for my day to start as well, with you and sfp and chatting! It was the only “breather” of my day, but it was really nice.

    Good i went to church today…the minister spoke “to me” to be sure, about the value of negative people (Rush or Santorum)…because they cause an opposite reaction that can become a wave of change…

    perhaps that is happening. Perhaps…but it at least kept me from feeling hopeless that I can’t do more…

    anyway…I am here at STarbucks Sunday night, Master across the table from me as we work on our laptops, and occasionally stop to touch, to tease. There is something so good about just *being*, isn’t there?

    i love you, sis.


    • aisha March 5, 2012 at 6:51 am #


      Yes, i have some of that hope too – that when things get too crazy, the pendulum will have to swing back…

      i love the image of you and your Master together, working on your laptops. Is that before or after he sends you to the bathroom to put in a butt plug and have some stranger come fuck you????


      i love you too, Dragon Lady,


      P.S. If you think i’ve lost my mind, go read ‘Nilla’s blog post today… if you haven’t already.

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