Bondage Movies

22 Jul

Last night, Sir told me He had downloaded some movie on bondage that He thought i’d like.  i thought that sounded pretty good.

i fixed us a lovely summer meal.  Salad, green beans, corn on the cob, cantaloupe and watermelon.   It was colorful, and pretty, and tasted good, and Sir liked it a lot, which made me feel good.

Then we got sidetracked.  He is trying to fix His Grandmother’s clock.  It will run, but it’s not chiming.  The chimes work, they just don’t work without Him starting them, which kind of defeats the purpose of a clock.

i’m working on a website, trying to figure out what i need to do to get pictures i can {legally} download that meet my needs and aren’t too expensive.  Ok, that are cheap.  i can find all kinds of “free images” websites, and browse through a zillion pictures that aren’t what i’m looking for, and then find what i want on the same site, but it’s $7.00 to download, and anyhow… it’s kind of frustrating.

So i’m about to sign up for one site that was cheap but not free when Sir comes in and wants to know what i’m doing, and why can’t i find pictures for free?   So He gets on His computer, which is right next to me, and starts looking.

Pretty soon, He realizes that it’s not as easy as He thought, but then He’s looking at pictures in the archives of the Library of Congress, which are also not what i need, and i’m still rooting through websites with images to download, and feeling incredibly frustrated, and thinking that there is not going to be any kink tonight because i’m way too cranky to be interested, and then ~

He leaves the room for a few minutes.

When He comes back, He steps up behind me and quickly encircles my neck in a collar.

It is not the leather collar, it is a heavy rope one He’s made.  It has a metal clasp in the front, that makes that lovely “snick” sound when He latches it.

Immediately, the website and images to download  begin to slip away.

i turn off my computer.  It’s gone.

i turn my attention to Him.

Effortlessly, seamlessly, i slip from the mundane to the world of submission.

He has all of my attention.

The nipple clamps up the ante just a bit.

The presence of the wooden spoon.  O, my.

He strokes me with it.   Like a promise, it lies between us.

We watch the movie ~ well, parts of the movie.  Bondage scenarios, about 6 different ones, but there is a lot more licking and sucking and fucking then there is bondage-ing.

As i’m watching, i think about the discussions about porn, about how i feel about it.

Watching porn turns me on, in the sense of making me wet.   D/s turns me on mentally and emotionally, and makes me wet.  So i’d enjoy the first part of each of these little half hour segments ~ the tying her up, spanking, whatever dominance stuff was going on.  Then it would become all sex.

AND not just sex but lots of shifting the cock from pussy to ass and back to pussy or mouth to ass and back to mouth and really ~ i’m not a prude or anything, but you need to wash in-between.  Really.

Plus, that gets kind of boring for me pretty quickly.  Yeah, yeah, yeah, suck, fuck, suck, fuck, o, yeah, baby…  ok, move on.

In one of them, she has to get permission for an orgasm, and He keeps turning her down, so that’s pretty hot.  But otherwise, that part of it just doesn’t touch me emotionally or mentally.  Still makes me wet though.

The movie is clearly D/s though, so that was good.   Clearly consensual, even in the context of the story, which makes me happy.  And with a D/s theme to each segment.

AND the women’s bodies are realistic.  The first one is Rubenesque.  The last one is so skinny she’s almost boyish.  And there’s a full range in between.  That’s good too.

So we watch, and critique, and fast forward through the parts we don’t like.  {REALLY, they need to wash in between!!}

We miss most of the last one though.  By that time, we are through watching and have moved into our own action movie.

Smiling… and since i’m still researching that “having an orgasm right before going to sleep makes me sleep well” theory, i can just say that so far the results are consistently positive.

15 Responses to “Bondage Movies”

  1. Fondlers Anonymous July 22, 2012 at 10:30 am #

    LOL I’m a proponent of washing in between too. REally. can you say UTI? sheesh.

    • aisha July 25, 2012 at 9:17 am #

      Hey, FA,

      Yep, exactly. 🙂

      aisha

  2. sin July 22, 2012 at 12:49 pm #

    “REALLY, they need to wash in between!!” Agree!
    -sin

    • aisha July 25, 2012 at 9:17 am #

      Hey, Sin,

      Yeah….

      aisha 😉

  3. striving for peace July 22, 2012 at 5:02 pm #

    yes — when I see that in any porn it’s like I hear brakes screeching.

    ick

    pussy to ass ok
    ass to pussy — no fucking way

    I mean — you could throw a shower scene in there — and actually — soaping him up in the shower is a lot of fun for everyone

    so

    what sort of photos are you looking for?

    sfp

    • aisha July 25, 2012 at 9:20 am #

      A shower scene would have been lovely!

      I like to think that they were actually pausing and washing inbetween on the movie set, but Sir just laughed at that.

      And thanks for the help with the pictures!

      aisha

  4. Mrs. Soft Botom July 22, 2012 at 6:06 pm #

    “REALLY, they need to wash in between!!” Agree x 1000000%! eww- just gross.

    • aisha July 25, 2012 at 9:20 am #

      Hi, Mrs. Soft Botton!

      Thanks for commenting!!

      Yep, looks like we’ve got lots of agreement here. 🙂

      aisha

  5. faerie July 22, 2012 at 7:00 pm #

    I’d ask what the movie was, as we always enjoy a good flick, but the no washing, ewwww! No thanks.

    • aisha July 25, 2012 at 9:21 am #

      Hey, Faerie,

      Yeah, and I don’t know what it was anyhow, i’d have to ask Sir. It wasn’t bad though, except for that…

      aisha

  6. Wordwytch July 22, 2012 at 10:40 pm #

    I’m right there with the rest of you! Wash! OMG wash! I was in a threesome with my ex, and he went from licking the other woman’s ass rather intensively and then wanted to kiss me. ewwww… Needless to say, I got up out of bed and left. shudder…

    Porn can be interesting. I’ve found some short bits on some of the websites that are very bondage heavy and were much better than what I think of as the ‘bdsm’ lite bunch.

    As for the collaring and shift of mindset… ah. 🙂

    • aisha July 25, 2012 at 9:24 am #

      Hey, Wordwytch,

      Yeah, ass to mouth icks me too. Although, i’ve read about subs who used a couple of enemas for cleaning and felt comfortable about the whole thing…

      i like some of the short bits on websites too.

      And the collaring shit of mindset is – amazing…

      🙂

      aisha

      • Wordwytch July 25, 2012 at 3:54 pm #

        Still ick! Wolf says that in the Dom training he went through they were told to have the subs use enemas before anal sex. Still….

        While I’m not collared, and probably never will be, I understand how my mind shifted the first time we used the cuffs.

  7. t1klish July 24, 2012 at 9:51 am #

    Yes wash! The only porn I occasionally see is on Tumblr, and there are constantly gifs and videos of going from ass to other openings, and how can I be turned on when all I see is ick and impending infections? And ass to mouth? I see the poor woman in the hospital with e-coli. These women must be destroying their immune systems living on antibiotics. Definitely not hot.

    • aisha July 25, 2012 at 9:25 am #

      Yeah, t1klish, me too on the ecoli and immune system damage. {shakes head…}

      Thanks for commenting!

      aisha

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