A Lick and A Promise

11 Jan

Which is kind of what i got last night.  Not an actual lick, but He stood behind me, pressed me tight against Him, tortured a nipple, and let me go.  Smacked my ass and told me to come to bed.

“Yes, Sir!”

…only just as things were about to get interesting, an important vanilla interruption trumped the whole thing.  


The interruption was a pleasant enough thing itself, but by the time it ended,  we were both half asleep.


So this morning, i’ve been questioning Sir about His ideas for a training school.  He says that He thinks most training school fantasies have some things in common – like a big isolated building, helpers that greet you and tell you what to expect, put you at your ease.

He says that there’s usually some ceremony where you leave the trappings of society behind – whether that’s by entering it naked, or some other means.  And that of course, you’re in a controlled environment, where your options are limited

As far as goals – each person’s would have to be individual and He’d have to research it and put some energy into figuring out what it would look like, but in any case, as a Dom his ideas just need to appeal to him, not to someone else.   Which is certainly true.

Maybe Doms aren’t interested in training schools overall?

i’ve been thinking about my goals though – if i were going to a training school, what would my goals be? Of course, whatever Sir wanted, but beyond that?  

{You’re waiting, aren’t you, for me to say something profound here?  Um, don’t hold your breath.}

i have no idea.  What i need is to be more together in my vanilla life, or maybe i don’t, maybe how i am is just fine and i just need to keep plugging along.   Maybe my mindfulness practice will never be what i think it should be, maybe ‘what it is’ is as good as it gets.

Maybe i’ll always be a procrastinator, and maybe that’s ok.  

Or maybe Sir will bring more structure to my life.  Who knows… stay tuned for further developments.

{This post is also a lick and a promise ~ mwhahahahahaha….}

8 Responses to “A Lick and A Promise”

  1. vanillamom January 11, 2013 at 8:29 am #

    Was it Dr. Seuss who said “where you are is just where you need to be”… (Oh the places you’ll go?)

    Acceptance of ourselves as who we are is critical, I think, to make any “forward” progression. And everyone procrastinates about something. Yes. even me. *nodding hard*

    ‘sides…we like you as you are…no improvement needed. 🙂

    And I have no idea who said “if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it” but that’s some pretty sage advice, too. Imagine the things we could let go of if we ALL listened to that one?



  2. abby January 11, 2013 at 8:46 am #

    nilla always has such good advice! If I could stop over thinking….life would go on…that is my goal for this year…
    hugs abby

  3. Kitty for Mr. Woods January 11, 2013 at 8:51 am #

    Training school? Sounds super interesting! I’m so looking into that!

  4. faerie January 11, 2013 at 11:27 am #

    Nilla’s right on the money. Most of us, me included could benefit from a little acceptance of self. Having said that, I of course, have goals for this year of things I’d like to improve too 🙂

  5. Wordwytch January 11, 2013 at 1:31 pm #

    And, if you go by what Wolf was saying, it isn’t so much the actual curriculum, but the place and apparatus to do a school. Hence his idea of a mobile dungeon.

    As for the rest… spot on. 🙂 Oh, and the quote…. Lord Vetinari… 🙂
    Si non confectus, non reficiat (“If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.”) Lord

    (for all the Prattchet fans!)

  6. night owl January 12, 2013 at 3:47 am #

    You’re in my head again. Which must be where you should be. 😉

    night owl

    • aisha January 12, 2013 at 6:24 am #

      Hey, if that’s where i belong, that’s where i’m going to be! 🙂


  7. aisha January 25, 2013 at 7:20 pm #

    Hey, you all, thanks for the comments and feedback – i really appreciate it. Hope we’re all moving further along the path of self-acceptace, right?

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